Bonfires, birthdays, and lights?

We had a very eventful couple of days this past weekend. The fun started on Friday night when Trav started a bonfire for the kids to enjoy. As it turned out, the bonfire for the kids became a mini gathering for the neighbors and their kids too. Unfortunately because the bonfire was spur of the moment, we were unprepared and didn't have the makings for smores. To tide the kids over we substituted cookies and warm cocoa instead - not a bad trade if you ask me! By 8:30pm the kids were tuckered out and ready for bed which left just the adults. I managed to stay awake until 10ish, then it was time for bed for me. Trav followed a couple of hours later and we all had a good night of sleep. Saturday brought another busy day. Ryan spent the majority of the day at his friend's birthday party (the highlight of the party being a trip to the water park at the Mall of America) while Trav, myself, and the girls did some major shopping at Home Depot. We decided it was time to finally update the lighting in our house so off we went to make some big purchases - 1 chandelier, 2 pendant lights, and a ceiling fan - not bad for a quick shopping trip. The real fun started when we got home and Trav started the installation process. Up first, the ceiling fan with a light (nothing like tackling the big stuff first). Although it took longer than he wanted, Trav managed to get the fan up and running before we joined up with Ryan at his friend's house (also our neighbor). We spent the evening hanging out with the neighbors and celebrating Reid's 5th birthday - good times! On our walk back home (a major benefit of having friends who are neighbors) we came across a different neighbor having a bonfire - must have been our lucky night! So Trav and I put the kids to bed and headed back outside for the 2nd bonfire in as many nights. We had some good conversation then headed back in before it got too late - another fun day in the books. Sunday proved just as busy as the past two days. After everyone rolled out of bed (Ryan at 7:45am and the girls not until close to 8:30am - guess the long day caught up to everyone) we started right back up. I got in a quick grocery run while Trav started in on the three remaining lights. By the end of the day all the lights were hung and working (Trav is turning into a real "handyman" these days), the ceiling fan was fixed (it made a loud humming noise initially), and lots of food was made - a very productive day for both of us! The kids used the day to relax, play, and even create a "chore board" (Ryan's new thing to start earning money so he can buy the toys that he wants).

Tomorrow we're back into our normal routine, but with MEA this week, Ryan only has two days of school. We're planning on using the time off to travel south to see some friends and stop in at Grandma and Grandpa Loken's for a day or two - it'll certainly be nice to get out of town for a while and have some adult interaction!

Bath time!

Rub-a-dub-dub two little ladies in a tub! The girls took their first bath together tonight. Lauren was a great help. She dubbed herself "Barbie Mommy" and when onto further compliment herself by saying she was, "a really nice Barbie Mommy." She is so humble. I do have to agree with her though, she did a great job of holding Ellie "really, really tight", and never let her fall into the water - if that is what makes a really nice Barbie Mommy, then she nailed it! Ellie seemed to enjoy her new perspective of being upright in the tub. She was able to play with some toys and even kick her feet around a bit. Enough with the words though, here are some pictures of the little ladies enjoying their bath.And here is a picture of the boy just to prove that he does in fact still exist. He's just too busy doing his thing to take time out and let his loving Mom take pictures of him anymore!

School conference time

After a fun Saturday spent with Aaron and Ann at a pumpkin patch (thanks for the fun guys!), it was back to our normal, everyday routine. This weeks excitement . . . parent/teacher conferences! Ryan's (or should I say, my) conference was scheduled for tonight and after the 20 minute conversation with his teacher and about two hours of thinking about it afterwards, it is safe to say that I'm a little overwhelmed. Now, I'm not overwhelmed because his teacher said anything negative about Ryan, I'm just overwhelmed by all that he is learning, or has to learn. I'm not sure what I thought kids learned in kindergarten, but when Mrs. Addler told me all the stuff they are working on and when she hopes to have things accomplished, I'm pretty sure my face went from, "yes, I agree" to, "oh my god, are you kidding me?" For example, she showed me Ryan's test results from the first week of kindergarten. The "test" was how many upper case letters does he recognize - 25, how many lower case letters does he recognize - 22 - so far so good. The next section was, how many sight words does he recognize - 0 out of 25 - pretty sure that one is my fault. For starters, I had no idea what a "sight word" was, and once the teacher explained them to me, I was a little shocked. Apparently "sight words" are words that are very common (ex. "I", "me", "see", you get the idea). Anyway, I had no idea that these "sight words" (there are 25 of them) were so important. And I certainly had no idea that Ryan (or any kid at the age of 5) was supposed to be able to read/recognize them. I guess I maybe thought kindergarten would still be lots of coloring, learning rules, and the "basics" - obviously that is not the case! Guess that means it's time for this family to crack down and learn some sight words (along with more letters, numbers, sentence structures and whatever else we're told to do)! Even though this whole thing is overwhelming, it is also very exciting. To think that Ryan will be reading and writing soon - crazy! Another sure sign our little boy is no longer just our little boy - he's becoming so independent and creative and social, and so many other things - it's so fun to see!

Almost time for the costumes . . .

The other day the kids and I were bored so I suggested that we take out their Halloween costumes (I purchased them all shortly after Halloween last year for about $2 a piece) and try them out to make sure they still fit (or in Ellie's case, make sure it sort of fits - I bought the costume before I even knew if we were having a boy or a girl so it had to be gender neutral as well). Anyway, Ryan fit into his Captain American costume just fine. Getting the mask on though was a bit tricky. Think big head and little mask - not a good combo. After a little stretching and pulling on the mask, we managed to get it on and make it work so he could both see and breathe - not an easy task when your dealing with limited material. Then it was Lauren's turn. Her costume was Batgirl (apparently I was going for a "Superhero" theme when I bought these). Other than the bodysuit being a little snug on the arms, the costume fit just fine and I have to say, she looked adorable in her little bat mask. With the two of them dressed, it was time to try out Ellie's costume. I couldn't even remember what I bought so when I pulled out an elephant costume I just had to smile . . . Ellie the Elephant - how cute! You would almost think we planned it - but trust me, we didn't. Getting her costume on was easy. It is a 12 month outfit so it was plenty big in the body and arms, but just fit in the length. Her head mask or gear, or whatever it is called was way too big, but I figure once we put a hat on underneath it, it will work just fine. Here are a couple of picture of the three of them . . . Captain America, Batgirl, and the little elephant!

More fun

I decided it was time to get my camera out again so here are some pictures of the girls playing outside and in. We've been taking advantage of the nice weather lately by spending most of our time outside going for walks, riding bikes, and playing with the neighbor kids - what a great way to spend October! You'll notice there are no pictures of Ryan again - that darn Kindergarten takes up so much of his time! And here is another video of Ellie. This time she is enjoying what we call her, "baby bounce house." I'm not sure who enjoys it more, Ellie because she can bounce around, or Lauren because she can "gently" push her sister all over the place without getting in trouble - what a deal!

Rolling

Ellie is finally feeling motivated enough to try to move herself a little bit, and I do mean, just a little bit. I can't blame the kid though. Whenever something is near and she can't get to it, there are always helping hands waiting to get it for her and bring it right to her grubby little paws (I wish someone would do that for me). Anyway, here is the little lady in action. She is only rolling from her stomach to her back - maybe she'll master back to stomach in the next month or so. I guess we'll wait and see . . .

Oh, and don't worry, no babies were squished by their big sisters during this film!

Girls, girls, girls

The girls and I have had a lot of "girl time" lately with Ryan off at school every morning so we're making the most of it. Lauren usually chooses our activities - think lots of babies, dancing, and talking. It is almost like the minute Ryan leaves, she starts talking, and never stops. I'm hoping the more she talks, the better she'll become at it - maybe it's wishful thinking, but it certainly can't hurt. Today's activities included a bike ride/walk, dancing in the driveway, and a morning snack outside at the kiddie picnic table - an absolutely perfect morning with my two best girls! Speaking of "besties," Lauren has been telling me lately that I'm "her best friend." Obviously this melts my heart and makes me smile, but today when I was laying her down for her nap, she said, "you my bestie Mom," then grabbed my face with her chubby little fingers, tilted my head to the side, and planted a big, wet kiss on my check. When she was finished she said, "that's how besties kiss" - seriously the cutest thing ever. After that, she could have gotten away with pretty much anything and I couldn't have been mad - lucky for me, she opted to sleep instead. Speaking of sleep, both kids were wiped out after their big day today. Our neighbor girl had invited the kids to be a part of her high school Child Development class. In order to get to the class on time, I had to pick Ryan up from school right at 11:40am, then drive across town with the kids to the high school and get them checked in by 11:55am - luckily everyone was excited so they were moving right along and we had no problems making it. I wasn't sure how the experience would go (Lauren was a little shy at first), but when I returned to pick them up 2 hours later, they were both happy and busy doing an art project. Turns out another one of our neighbor girls was in the class as well so the kids got a lot of one-on-one attention - something they both love! And to top the experience off, the kids got to eat lunch at the high school - talk about exciting. Ryan couldn't' stop talking about the milk, chicken nuggets, sugar cookie, and "this really good fruit cup with juice on it" - apparently that fruit cup was the highlight of his meal! Funny thing, I've bought fruit cups in the past and he wouldn't touch them, and now all of a sudden he gets the same fruit cup at school and it's the best thing in the world - interesting.

I'll leave with some pictures from some of our "girls only" photo shoots the past couple of mornings.